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Men who like to be chased?

May 16th, 2009 by admin | 1 Comment | Filed in Singles & Dating
Aries Queen asked:


I have been dating a man on and off for 9 months. His game is he wows you then distances himself. I am not one ot chase a man but I have bent a little for him. We recently became serious and had the best month together. We got a long great and loved each others company. This past weekend he had made all these plans with me then he disappeared. When he finally called (3 days later) he said it was a misunderstanding on both our parts (I didn’t call him either) he thought I wanted space. I fidn that to be BS because he was supposed to return my call and never did. I was upset and told him that it hurt me everytime he did that so if he could just please take me into consideration next time and tell me something simple like “Something came up I’ll make up to you later”, no need for explanation.. Seriously I enjoy my freedom time apart is music to my ears (i’m an aries). Instead of apologizing and agreeing to work on it he told me mayeb it would be better to just cut off ties. I agreed and we slept through the night with our backs turned to eachother. He left in the morning and I haven’t heard from him since and know he will not call unless I basically chase after him all over again. Which I refuse to do. I am wondering if it is our signs that is the problem. Aries woman & Cancer man?? He mentioned to me during our arguement that I would be running after him for a long time but the day I caught him he was mine forever… “I caught myself a diamond.” Can someone say cocky.. I am not in love with this guy but it is the challenge that keeps me going. I have never had a man who got to know me and didn’t fall and chase after me (ok call me cocky!) that is why I am so frustrated. I know he cares about me and likes me and misses me just as much he is just stubborn and like I said expects to be chased. Someone help me!!

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What did I do wrong, I am heartbroken?

February 12th, 2009 by admin | 1 Comment | Filed in Singles & Dating
tonycleaveland@yahoo.com asked:


I met this woman at work and I love her. I met her when I was 17 and she was 24. We became friends shortly after I met her. I am a big man, but she was dating a guy that looked like Fat Albert at the time…..

She always told me she wanted to marry me, and that I was amazing, smart, adorable, etc…. I played hard to get at the time because she was in a relationship, but she broke up with him. She needed my help and I loaned her $400 dollars.

Then after a couple of months, I started taking her out, buying expensive gifts for her like diamond earrings, and doing everything i could to be the best man I could be. I LOVED HER. I was a virgin and turned down like four women just to be with her….

She always acted like she loved me, but every time I made a move, she rejected me.

After 8 months, I quit talking to her, and severed all ties. After 2 months, she sent a text message trying to create small talk….

I can’t get over her, but I cannot be taken advantage of. My heart is broken, and I don’t know what to do…… I STILL LOVE HER, BUT DON’T KNOW WHAT TO DO. I’ve been single since then….

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Would “Diamonds” make a lady happy after a few accustaions that her “man’s” been bunking other women?

October 12th, 2008 by admin | 23 Comments | Filed in Singles & Dating
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A.Trifanti.Darore asked:


Long story short, accusations are levelled at me for having diverse sexual encounters with many ladies (i’ve never heard of/seen) in allsorts of wierd places/times fro the last three months, and the way I realised is through my g/f. Stinks and shes so heart broke, everywhere she goes i.e. shop, they telling her in one way or another and looking at her strangely etc. Even my parents/ relatives are saying this!
Would taking her on a vacation to Italy and buying her some diamonds settle her faith/ trust back into me and rid/displace these absurdities/slanders? Im not no whore, Im a commited guy, innocent of this libell, though nobody believes me…
Any advice? ladies are probably more suited to this, but hey its open to all!
Oh btw you dont know me ppl, IM NOT LYING. I never DID anything. It is some conspiracy with me since my younger days, and being wealthy (as ppl say) doesnt HELP!! I’ve talked, its everywhere all the time. Parents are just parrotting what anyone is saying. These Other ladies are after me fro sex etc and other guys after my g/f thats IT! So im left in a puddle.

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ladies would you be offended if a guy bought you a man made diamond?

February 19th, 2008 by admin | 3 Comments | Filed in Singles & Dating
man made diamonds
Scott S asked:


a ring or necklace?

remember they are real diamond, its the same material! the process is just sped up

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ladies man made diamond? yes or no?

January 29th, 2008 by admin | 5 Comments | Filed in Singles & Dating
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Scott S asked:


if no then why!

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