Miri T asked:


My husband came back to me because he was angry at me naging and being cranky. I begged him to come back, and he did. He loves me but he gets very angry when I start being mean when I get my period ot I am tired. We are married fo 14 years. When he came back he bought himself a car (26K) and I guess he felt he needed it for work. I made him buy me a diamond ring (he never got me an engagemment ring) 5.5 karats (40K). I tought it will make him stay, and made me feel good. He is very attentive and he is trying very hard. I feel bad because I made him come back and now I am so angry at him for leaving me that I can’t even have sex with him. He is patient with me, but I am afraid he will leave eventually. I am trying not to be short with him but I can’t help it some times.
He also knows that I had sex with a man when he was gone, and he understands. I am going to therapy now, but I am affraid I will never get the feeling I had for him of passion . Will it ever come back?
We also put in for a divorce and I am hoping that it will feel like we are starting new, and that the old marriage is gone. He did not want to do that, he wanted the same marriage, but I feel that I want to start new.

Laurel asked:


Wednesday, my husband and I went shopping and I saw a gorgeous necklace (sapphire and diamond) that I made sure he knew I liked.

Thursday, he came home from work with a present for me and I was certain it was that beautiful necklace. To my shock and surprise, it was a different necklace! Looked nothing like the one I had seen the day prior! I asked him why he got me this one and he said it was because my face lit up when I first saw it, but that’s wrong because I’ve never seen that particular necklace before. And I would have been ok with it but this necklace was just plain hideous. Anyway, we got into an argument and I told him I didn’t want it.

This morning, he brought me breakfast in bed with flowers, and I found the necklace that I actually wanted around my neck (Somehow he managed to put it on my neck while I was still sleeping). He told me that he went back to the jewelery salon and asked the sales woman which one we had looked at and tried on the other day. I was so disappointed when he said that because I was expecting him to say he remembered which one ACTUALLY made my face lit up. Why are men so inconsiderate?

Mimi asked:


What do you think of having moissanite instead of diamonds (on any kind of jewelry)? I don’t know much about it - so any info would be helpful.