
tonycleaveland@yahoo.com asked: I met this woman at work and I love her. I met her when I was 17 and she was 24. We became friends shortly after I met her. I am a big man, but she was dating a guy that looked like Fat Albert at the time…..
She always told me she wanted to marry me, and that I was amazing, smart, adorable, etc…. I played hard to get at the time because she was in a relationship, but she broke up with him. She needed my help and I loaned her $400 dollars.
Then after a couple of months, I started taking her out, buying expensive gifts for her like diamond earrings, and doing everything i could to be the best man I could be. I LOVED HER. I was a virgin and turned down like four women just to be with her….
She always acted like she loved me, but every time I made a move, she rejected me.
After 8 months, I quit talking to her, and severed all ties. After 2 months, she sent a text message trying to create small talk….
I can’t get over her, but I cannot be taken advantage of. My heart is broken, and I don’t know what to do…… I STILL LOVE HER, BUT DON’T KNOW WHAT TO DO. I’ve been single since then….
Tags: Expensive Gifts, Heart, Ties